Walk Of Life – Day 05, May 2021 – Thoughts From The Book Of Proverbs – MAY
MAY WE REGARD DISCRETION
That you may preserve discretion, And your lips may keep knowledge. – Proverbs 5:2
What is discretion? the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offence or revealing confidential information.
The operational definition of discretion is “the ability to avoid words, actions, and attitudes which could result in undesirable consequences.” A person practices discretion by thoughtfully considering possible consequences before taking action. He values silence, both to allow himself to think before he speaks, and then after he has spoken, to allow the hearer to consider his message. He is cautious and thoughtful, not reckless and impulsive, because he knows careless actions often hurt people and damage relationships. He wants to help others, and he realizes others may be influenced by his choice of activities, music, and entertainment. He does not laugh at or make jokes at the expense of others. He dresses modestly in consideration of others, not wanting his attire to be a stumbling block for them.
The opposite of discretion is simple mindedness. A simpleminded person is not attentive to what is going on around him. Who is speaking? What is being said? What is happening? Ignoring one’s surroundings can bring trouble. (See Proverbs 22:3.) Such a lack of caution and care can lead to rash, foolhardy, and inappropriate behavior. However, Proverbs is filled with insights on how to grow in wisdom, prudence, and discretion. It promises to give “subtilty to the simple, to the young man knowledge and discretion” (Proverbs 1:4). As you apply the wisdom found in Proverbs and learn from experience, God will enable you to rightly discern what words, actions, and attitudes should be avoided.How do we know which choices are best? Discretion is learned as we seek God’s wisdom from His Word. The Holy Spirit faithfully guides us in each situation. Considering possible results is helpful in discerning appropriate behavior.
Jesus warns us, “But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment” (Matthew 12:36). Idle words are useless and unproductive. Sometimes it is better to say nothing at all! When something does need to be said, a person with discretion finds a gracious way and a fitting time to say it. Every word of God is pure and accomplishes a righteous, intended purpose.
A person with discretion is sensitive to the Lord’s leading, even if it means doing nothing! He asks the Lord for wisdom to know how to respond with the right words, proper actions, and Godly attitudes. What a privilege to study the rich truths of God’s Word, hide them in your heart, and apply them to daily life! These truths are priceless treasures, far above the value and beauty of rubies and diamonds. As you dig deeper into God’s Word, see Who He is, and allow Him to work in you, your life will be a radiant expression of His love. He will be glorified as His character is seen in you.
Prayer: Merciful father, thank you for choosing unwise people like us to shame the wise of this world. Replace our simple mindedness with your discretion. Blessed Holy spirit be our teacher today and everyday. In Jesus Christ’s most name we pray. Amen.
